For Guys
So you think she might be pregnant.Here's some quick advice that may be of benefit to you right now:
The Do's
- Listen. She’s going through an emotion roller coaster and needs you to be there for her.
- Stay Calm. She needs your support now more than ever. Regardless of your relationship in the future, that baby needs you too.
- Talk about it - not only with each other, but prepare to talk with parents and others close to the situation. Hiding the news from people who can help you only increases the stress.
- Gather the facts. Get all the information and seek wise counsel so you can make the best decision for you both.
- Express yourself honestly. It's normal to have feelings of anger, frustration and fear. But make sure she knows she is not alone.
- Don't run. The more you run from this, the harder it becomes to think and act clearly.
- Don't pressure her. Applying pressure will only push her away, possibly into a regretful situation. Both of you would do well to work as a team.
- Don't forget. You have a very active role in this situation. Listen to input as well as give your thoughts.

